Nothing in my life and faith has been more confusing and spiritually hazardous than my pursuit of marriage. Maybe you’ve wanted the relationship or liked the guy or girl, and you’ve never had the chance.
From far too young, I longed for the affection, safety, and intimacy I anticipated with a wife. I experimented too much with our hearts and allowed things to go too far. And now my singleness is a regular reminder that I messed up, missed opportunities, or did it wrong. Maybe all the suggestions and advice you’ve collected has become a confusing mess of good-intentioned contradictions and ambiguity.
Don’t sit around waiting for a boy to make you a priority, communicate his intentions, or even call you on the phone. And this God created and rules his world, including men, women, the biological compulsions that bind them together, and the institution that declares their union and keeps it sacred and safe.
Girls, stop expecting guys to make any formal attempt at winning your affections.
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It’s no secret that romantic relationships can be tricky, despite what Hollywood might want us to think. Being “ready” is different for everyone and things can get complicated when partners aren’t on the same page.
Here are some ways to help you and your partner begin the sex conversation:back to top If you’re having sex or thinking about having sex with someone of the opposite sex, knowing what birth control and STD prevention options are available and how to properly use them is incredibly important.
Teens get a lot of misinformation regarding different kinds of contraceptive methods, so it’s important to be clear about both of your expectations.
As teens get older, they are more likely to become involved in exclusive dating relationships.
Many times, it's hard to see clearly in the cloudy fog we've come to know as love, and many of us end up going a little nuts. You're not those people who refuse to keep their schedules open because every night is date night. Whether it was that one time you snooped or when he accidentally lied, neither of you is perfect.
But when you have a healthy relationship, you'll know. You make plans with each other the same way friends do, and if you're busy Friday night, then maybe you'll just see each other Saturday… Knowing this, you both don't freak out after every fight or small mistake.
But God had much more in mind with romance than orgasms or even procreation, and so should we. When people in the world are expecting less and less of each other in dating, God isn’t.
So, as singles we have to work harder in our not-yet-married relationships to preserve what marriage ought to picture and provide.