Before I begin, this is a formula for actually dating someone.
Not hooking up in a bar, or some other random one night affair.
You’re 21, which is plenty old to date and have serious relationships.
You say “the same mistakes keep happening, irrational, clingy, and losing myself in relationships.” To me, it sounds like you are too focused on having a relationship in your life and not focused on other things like career, friends, and hobbies.
As for your question, when the right age is for children to start dating, FX will assume you are referring to dating as two people spending unsupervised time together outside school or community activities due to a romantic connection, and that there will most likely be some level of physical intimacy – holding hands, kissing on the lips, etc.
FX is going to refer to David Elkind, who is a professor at Tufts University and the author of The Hurried Child.
There are number of views on that ideal age for a teen to start dating, but no one has come to agree on an exact age to do it.
I n the past many kids didn't start dating until high school.
It sounds like in your case age isn’t holding you back from successful relationships.As outsiders, we understand that there is something wrong with this picture, but how can we explain ourselves without looking like buffoons!Well, look no further, you’ve come to the right place.Making a romantic relationship the main focus of your life will drag you down the path of being too clingy and obsessed with your partner.I am 14, and almost in 9th grade, and dating is considered a regular everyday subject for teenagers my age. I know it's natural for kids his age to start wondering about the opposite sex and are getting interested, but is 11 to young to be dating? If you are concerned about your brother and what his friends are doing, FX thinks it might be helpful for you to start out by getting a better idea of what “dating” means for his peer group.Elkind believes that people younger than 14 should not date because they do not have the social and interpersonal skills required for dating situations.